Wednesday, May 23, 2012
Midweek Confessions..
So, I stumbled upon a blog written by some random person, who posts her "midweek confessions" each week. It usually makes me giggle, because I can totally relate to some of the things she mentions in her blog. Today she wrote about how her 11 month old is going through the terrible twos. I was SO relieved to hear that someone else is experiencing this too!! In the last few weeks, Audrey has perfected the art of temper tantrums. I mean all out, kicking, screaming, throwing her body in the floor, tantrums. It happens almost every meal time, because she only wants grilled cheese to eat, and I am encouraging begging her to eat other foods. It happens when I am trying to change her diaper, because she doesn't want to lay still. It happens for other reasons that I have no clue about....and I lose my patience. I lose my confidence... So, it is comforting to know that other parents are dealing with the same issues and struggles, and I'm not alone. Here is the reality: not every day is perfect. I am not perfect and Audrey is not perfect, and we are dealing with that the best way we know how; one day at a time....
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Hey Jessica :) You are so not alone. That is true for everyone! :) I think its really hard with your first child b/c the learning curve is so steep. I have felt completely clueless the majority of Peter's life, seriously. And I personally think that 1-2 is as hard (or harder) than the "terrible two's" b/c it starts to get so much more complex than diaper changes and nursing. And I can't say its gotten a ton easier but it has gotten a little easier. Just like you have to adjust to the newborn LIFESTYLE (it feels so shocking), tantrums & someone else's opinion are equally as shocking. But somehow you get used to it and/or it gets better and/or you start to feel like you have a clue. Don't beat yourself up about it. It IS HARD in so many aspects... the lack of control, etc. Praying for you. Be easy on yourself and take a break if your mom or John or someone offers. Love you!!! Sending Hugs. You're a great mom!!!
ReplyDeleteAnd as someone who's been there and am now a grandma, it's a tough job, but your love will shine through and give her a good basis for her life. You're doing a fantastic job and little Audrey is so lucky to have you and John as her parents. Love you three.
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